1. The reason. I
know this may sound very basic but some don’t have a reason why
they would like to go back. Family, job, good ol’ soya or the beautiful
smile of your “boutiquier” are all valid reasons but please make sure
they can sustain a life for you there. You went abroad for a reason.
Also, make sure that what pulls you back home is strong enough to never
make you regret your decision.
2. Timing. Are you ready?
Is it feasible to move back when you decide to do it? Are your finances
in order? Can family step-in and help if you need them? Is it hiring
season? Is that uncle you were counting on still holding that
high-profile job? Is that elite school you want to get into accepting
applications? Those questions are a small sample of what should be going
through your head when thinking about your timing.
3. A plan. Map out what you’re
going to do as soon as you land. I’m aware that things don’t always go
according to plans but it will be useful to have a blueprint of what you
would like to get done. This will allow you to not waste time and be
more proactive.
4. A network. Make sure the one
you operate in includes people who have moved back as they’ll be your
most valuable resource and will help you ease into a life back home.
Make sure the network is varied as to have diverse opinions, allowing
you to consider all that is possible and all that needs to be done.
These people will be honest with you because they live where you want to
move to. They are aware of the situation on the ground and will most
likely give you an honest assessment on whether or not your move is
feasible…. and wise.
5. Strength. No, I’m not talking
about the kind that can make you topple over a car with your bare hands.
Mental strength. It’s an adjustment. Yes, you have lived here before
and yes you can find your way around town pretty easily but you have
also lived elsewhere. You’ve experienced respected traffic lights and
polite waitresses (you know what I’m talking about). And whether you
want to admit it to yourself or not, you have changed and you are not
the person that left 10, 5, 3 or even 2 years ago. Keep that in mind.
You will have to dig deep as not to be overwhelmed by this new life
home.
There you have it, my 5 advice of some sort. I’m actually one of
those people who don’t believe home is confined to the place you were
born. Home truly is where the heart lies and that can be anywhere in the
world. But if you do decide to go back to where you’re from, it will be
a smoother transition if the decision is thought out and considered
under multiple angles. So go ahead, pack those bags and head home
whenever you’re ready, no rush…home will always be waiting.
1 comment:
Am going to add a few more considerations.
1) Effect on your family. If you have children of school going age, consider the cost and quality of education you will need to provide for them. There are lots of top notch schools but these come at a price.
2) Again, dont expect it to be a smooth sail. Stick and think out of the box. Never ignore any opportunity or lead. It could be the one.
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